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The alternative dispute resolution market in the United States is now a mature market, and it is maturing internationally as well. This mature and maturing market for dispute resolution recognises that mediation (along with arbitration, collaborative law and other Disruptive Resolution™ processes) offers significant advantages over litigation. This recognition inevitably leads to increased demand for mediators. Increased demand results in increased supply. Presently, despite the growing demand, the supply of trained mediators exceeds the demand, as parties and attorneys tend to use the same mediators (and, to some extent, arbitrators) repeatedly. 

When a dispute occurs and the opportunity to choose the appropriate mediator appears, the question arises: “How do we choose the mediator?”

The answer should not always be, let’s propose the same mediator we’ve always used.

Let’s get mediation approaches out of the rut.

As markets mature, they stagnate. As an example, consider automobiles. Do automobiles differ significantly from brand to brand? Not much. 

Similarly, approaches to mediation have narrowed in some parts of the country, and unquestionably in the jurisdictions of my practice, into a rut. When mediating disputes was a new idea, virtually every mediation began with a joint session with opening statements by counsel. Today, advocates seem to have reached a consensus that both joint sessions and opening statements just “make things worse,” by hardening old resentments and forming new ones. Many advocates say they prefer “all caucus” mediation. While some disputes may not benefit from some joint session and “getting acquainted” time, most can benefit from an effort by the mediator to acknowledge the participants’ humanity and to recognize that mediation’s purpose is problem-solving, not defending entrenched positions.

Let the forum fit the fuss.

The mediator should be capable of changing his style to suit the parties’ needs. As some dispute resolution practitioners say, “let the forum fit the fuss,” or, in this context, let the style and structure of the mediation fit the dispute and the parties.

Some parties may be unable to resolve a dispute without the prodding intervention of an evaluative mediator who suggest solutions; other parties may need the facilitative approach, where the mediator encourages the parties to negotiate.

Mediators and parties don’t always have to follow the same approach or the same structure. Some disputes may lend themselves to multiple short mediation sessions in which the parties and mediators focus on just one aspect of the dispute, in the manner of collaborative law. This approach may be particularly useful for legal matters which include discrete issues. Divorce mediation is one example, as these disputes often include issues such as real estate division, division of financial assets and retirement assets, alimony, and and child custody and visitation.

Other disputes may lend themselves to the mediation-arbitration approach, or “med-arb,” where the neutral expends significant effort bringing the parties closer, then becomes a neutral arbitrator. If the parties genuinely want and need resolution, this approach should be considered.

One type of arbitration, perhaps too-little utilized but one which may be particularly appropriate for the arbitration component of mediation-arbitration, is to agree to use med-arb but to use “baseball arbitration,” or labor arbitration, where the arbitrator asks each side to put their best number on the table (and defend it), and the neutral then chooses one or the other. Also worth considering is “night baseball” arbitration, where the two parties submit settlement numbers to each other, the arbitrator renders an award without knowledge of the two numbers, and the award is then adjusted to conform to the closest of the parties’ proposals.

The mediator’s fees may be less significant than other considerations.

Each mediation is unique, with different issues, different dynamics between the parties, different matters and economic factors at risk, and different influences on the parties. The experience of the mediator thus may be more significant than cost, and not merely the mediator’s work as a mediator.

Parties should consider mediators’ training (including its breadth and depth), experience as a client, as a party representative, as an observer, as an assistant, and as a co-mediator as well. Some mediators are active in *pro bono* community mediation or low cost mediation in lower-level courts. This sort of mediation often demands a high degree of empathy with the parties, an appreciation and respect of the culture, and patience.
Among larger law firms as among general counsel offices in large corporations, there is a temptation to choose a “heavyweight” (usually translated as “expensive”) mediator as well as “frequent flyer” mediators. But there are disadvantages to these approaches. The mediator with a national reputation may be in high demand and thus unavailable; their fees may be higher than the market average due to higher demand; and the “heavyweight” mediator may not have the best background of experience in the subject matter or knowledge of the parties’ businesses.

If there is any doubt on suitability there is no harm in telephoning or interviewing multiple candidates and making an assessment, particularly where the matter is a “big dollar” case. In the case of the mediator frequently used by one or both parties, the mediator may have, consciously or unconsciously, adopted a template for proceeding which may be inappropriate or ineffective for the new matter. “Heavyweight” mediators are often also retired federal or state court judges, who, in the experience of most lawyers, are more likely to utilize an evaluative approach to mediation, even though a facilitative approach may be more appropriate for some mediations.

If cost is a concern, all professional mediators will provide full details including the fees for pre-reading mediation material, speaking to all the parties and/or their legal representatives and confirming the mediation time allocation and overtime fees.

Parties should choose a mediator who has been trained specially in mediation to industry-accepted standards. Certification or registration by the mediator’s state bar and membership in local bar alternative dispute resolution groups are important if not essential. Membership on the mediation roster of national dispute resolution forums such as FINRA (the Financial Regulatory Authority) or the American Arbitration Association means that the mediator has met training and experience requirements for those organizations.

Subject matter expertise sometimes deserves top ranking.

A common concern is whether the parties need a mediator with subject-matter expertise or knowledge of the industry. For certain disputes, speaking the same language is a major benefit. For specialised fields such as securities mediation, it makes sense to employ mediators who have knowledge and experience in the industry. In some instances, mediators who have actually worked in the industry may be beneficial. For example, if you have an options trading dispute, it would not boost the parties’ confidence if the mediator does not understand options trading. Moreover, educating the mediator may waste the parties’ time. Specific knowledge can make the mediation process more efficient and enable the mediator to focus on the key issues in the disputed. Steven P. Gregory, a former securities registered representative and experienced FINRA arbitrator and mediator, possesses substantial knowledge of securities matters.

In some matters, however, the parties may prefer a mediator with no specific knowledge to avoid preconceived notions of a possible settlement.

Cultural sensitivity may be growing in significance, while location is less important.

The selection of mediators may also be driven by their understanding of cultural issues, or the actual location of the mediator may be important to the parties. With telephone and video conference facilities now being used as an alternative to conference-room mediations, the possibility exists of selecting the preferred mediator without regard to location. The Gregory Law Firm offers “virtual mediation” through technologies as simple as telephonic mediation and as complex as multiparty video conferencing.

Tenacity matters.

The aim of mediation, of course, is to facilitate settlement, so the mediator needs to keep the negotiation moving until each party’s best negotiating position is on the table. Successful mediators are tenacious and will not give up and adjourn the mediation merely because the parties are too far apart. They must be prepared to change their approach from facilitative to evaluative to transformative as necessary to reach a settlement. Many successful mediations have started where the parties were millions of dollars apart with their settlement offers. Mediators should possess the skills to break impasse and keep the parties talking.

Selecting the right mediator involves consideration of a number of criteria. Whether the subject matter is employment mediation, securities mediation, divorce mediation, professional fee disputes, or mediation of business disputes, the Gregory Law Firm is able to provide mediation services in Alabama and elsewhere, in person or through virtual mediation.

Please review our website at or call us at 205-208-0312. When you call during business hours, you will almost always be able to speak with an actual person or with Steven Gregory himself.

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